“I didn’t know what it’s like to touch my wife in a devotional way,” a client confessed after attending a yoni massage lesson with his...

"I betrayed myself. A lot. In my personal and professional life. I felt I had to, or at least I genuinely believed I did. I observed it...

The shibari journey that I received in Tokyo from Ren Yagami, a Japanese master, was a true privilege. Visiting with him was...

My yoni massage work always begins with the setting of an Intention. To set an intention, it’s best to try to avoid being too rational in...

I’m definitely a very curious person. I love this in myself. I believe that in order for someone to really know the elephant, one has to...

“Create a safe space for them to be a mess” Bodhi, my rope guru, instructed me early on and I took it to heart, as I do with all...

I worked very hard to get here. And so did my mother, father, grandparents, and several generations before them. My great grandfather...

It’s been ten years since I began making regular pilgrimages to Asia. That is where I learned about spiritual practices, participated in...

How we feel about ourselves—whether we respect ourselves—determines the quality of our life. It determines everything, from our overall...

Freedom. As long as I remember myself, that’s been my longing. Freedom from pain, freedom from limitations, freedom from...

“I want to end this existence!” - I scream, drowning in tears. Rivers of tears running through my eyes, mucus flowing down my nose which...

Something is Undoing Both of Us. He came to me looking desperate, like someone sick and tired of his own skin. He was a large man, tall...

Freedom What is valuable about power exchange journeys and why do we seek them? I have always been tirelessly curious about the deeper...

...To uncover the sources of difficult attractions we must reject easy labels and venture inward where the erotic mind has its own ways...

Reflecting It’s important for me to slow down and reflect back on my work. As I do so, it becomes apparent that, wow, every client I see...

We look for it through a deep emotional and physical connection with another, we look for the right kind atmosphere to catch a sense of...

Aftercare, as the name suggests, is taking care of your journeying partner after play. This type of care is all about gently bringing...

“I am only interested in the ideas that become obsessive and make me feel uneasy. The ideas that I’m afraid of.” – Marina Abramovic One...

Reflections for my facilitation practice (Part 2) I also shared with Kate my reflection on my aspiration to practice as a death educator,...

I was inspired to get to know death from every possible angle. This would not be my first foray into this subject, as my vulnerability...