Lustful vs. Devotional Touch: A Path to Deeper Intimacy
“I didn’t know what it’s like to touch my wife in a devotional way,” a client confessed after attending a yoni massage lesson with his...
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Rina Trevi
Nov 14, 20232 min read
Compassion reveals when I choose myself
"I betrayed myself. A lot. In my personal and professional life. I felt I had to, or at least I genuinely believed I did. I observed it...
Rina Trevi
Mar 5, 20232 min read
YOU CAN BE ANYTHING…
The shibari journey that I received in Tokyo from Ren Yagami, a Japanese master, was a true privilege. Visiting with him was...
Rina Trevi
Feb 18, 20233 min read
Your Intention
My yoni massage work always begins with the setting of an Intention. To set an intention, it’s best to try to avoid being too rational in...
Rina Trevi
Jan 31, 20236 min read
Medical Domme
I’m definitely a very curious person. I love this in myself. I believe that in order for someone to really know the elephant, one has to...
Rina Trevi
Jan 10, 20232 min read
Safe Space to Fall Apart
“Create a safe space for them to be a mess” Bodhi, my rope guru, instructed me early on and I took it to heart, as I do with all...
Rina Trevi
Oct 14, 20226 min read
Everlasting (Self-) Love
I worked very hard to get here. And so did my mother, father, grandparents, and several generations before them. My great grandfather...
Rina Trevi
Apr 5, 20224 min read
The Boundless and the Bound
It’s been ten years since I began making regular pilgrimages to Asia. That is where I learned about spiritual practices, participated in...
Rina Trevi
Apr 3, 20222 min read
What is Self-Worth
How we feel about ourselves—whether we respect ourselves—determines the quality of our life. It determines everything, from our overall...
Rina Trevi
Nov 2, 20213 min read
THE GIRL WHO WASN’T FREE
Freedom. As long as I remember myself, that’s been my longing. Freedom from pain, freedom from limitations, freedom from...
Rina Trevi
Oct 6, 20215 min read
A Symphony of Selves
“I want to end this existence!” - I scream, drowning in tears. Rivers of tears running through my eyes, mucus flowing down my nose which...
Rina Trevi
May 8, 20213 min read
Something is Undoing Both of Us.
Something is Undoing Both of Us. He came to me looking desperate, like someone sick and tired of his own skin. He was a large man, tall...
Rina Trevi
Mar 28, 20214 min read
I see nothing about you that I don’t love
Freedom What is valuable about power exchange journeys and why do we seek them? I have always been tirelessly curious about the deeper...
Rina Trevi
Feb 22, 202114 min read
Feminization
...To uncover the sources of difficult attractions we must reject easy labels and venture inward where the erotic mind has its own ways...
Rina Trevi
Jan 28, 202110 min read
Even Soldiers Need Surrender
Reflecting It’s important for me to slow down and reflect back on my work. As I do so, it becomes apparent that, wow, every client I see...
Rina Trevi
Nov 11, 20204 min read
Intimacy
We look for it through a deep emotional and physical connection with another, we look for the right kind atmosphere to catch a sense of...
Rina Trevi
Nov 4, 20202 min read
Aftercare
Aftercare, as the name suggests, is taking care of your journeying partner after play. This type of care is all about gently bringing...
Rina Trevi
Apr 12, 20207 min read
Session with no map
“I am only interested in the ideas that become obsessive and make me feel uneasy. The ideas that I’m afraid of.” – Marina Abramovic One...
Rina Trevi
Apr 12, 20204 min read
DIE BEFORE YOU DIE - LIVING BURIALS (PART 2)
Reflections for my facilitation practice (Part 2) I also shared with Kate my reflection on my aspiration to practice as a death educator,...
Rina Trevi
Apr 12, 20209 min read
DIE BEFORE YOU DIE - LIVING BURIALS (PART 1)
I was inspired to get to know death from every possible angle. This would not be my first foray into this subject, as my vulnerability...
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